In this post: Do you have a self care night routine? It doesn’t have to be elaborate. Some simple activities that help you relax and unwind after a long day of work or other activities fit the bill.


The sun had long ducked out of sight and I had to turn on the lights.  My timer went off as we were about to end the conversation and I said to my friend “I gotta go, I have to get some ‘me time’ in .”

So many things to do, so little time. I know you have a lot of busyness in your life, with a to do list that you’re trying to check off.

“What’s for dinner? you ask yourself. Plus the laundry needs to get done and you have to make the deadline for the project at work.

But taking care of yourself is absolutely essential. Although it may seem like there are never enough hours in the day to fit self care into your schedule, you can make time for yourself.

How Can You Create A Self Care Night Routine?

Well, it can be as simple as incorporating some easy activities into your bedtime routine. Whether you need a few minutes of ‘me time’ or an entire night dedicated to unwinding, you have to take care of yourself.

Be intentional about it, by planning ahead and creating a routine that works for you.

Here are some tips for creating a self care night routine that will leave you feeling relaxed and refreshed.

1. Set Aside Time

clock on a table

The first step in creating an effective self care night routine is to set aside some dedicated time for yourself.

Here’s the thing, it doesn’t have to be a long period of time, but setting aside even just 20 – 30 minutes each night can help you wind down and focus on what’s important, you

Besides, having a regular end-of-the-day ritual will give you something to look forward to and at the same time help you to stay consistent with your self care practices.

2. Organization is Key

One of the best ways to make sure that self care becomes a regular part of your routine is by being organized.

It would be good if you could set up a designated space where you can keep all the items that you need for your self care activities. Items such as books, journals, essential oils, and candles, you get the idea. 

When you have a place where everything is easily accessible, it will help to make it easier for you to get into the habit of taking time for yourself each night.

3. Create a Checklist

Next, it’s time to create a checklist of the things that you want to do during your self care night. Setting your intentions with this list will also help to keep you focused on what you need to do.

You can include anything from reading a book, taking a hot bath or shower, stretching, coloring, or meditating and praying.

Even just sipping on some herbal tea while watching an episode of your favorite show. Whatever it is that helps you to relax and rejuvenate should go on that list.

 4. Unplug From Technology

I know that it can be tempting to scroll through social media before bed. But, unplugging from technology during your self care nights will help ensure you get some much-needed rest and relaxation. 

Put away all electronics at least an hour before your bedtime and instead focus on activities that don’t involve screens.

This will not only help to reduce stress but will also help to improve your sleep quality, which is key for your physical and mental health.

5. Create A Relaxing Space

Creating an inviting space for yourself is also an important factor when it comes to developing an effective self care practice. 

This could mean anything from simply rearranging or removing furniture to adding plants or candles.

You might also want to add items such as cozy blankets, warm lighting, relaxing music, or comfy pillows so that your space feels comfy and inviting.

 Whatever makes you feel calm, relaxed, and comfortable should be added.

 6. Choose Your Activities

woman having bath with diffuser nearby

Now that you’ve set aside some dedicated time and created a relaxing space, it’s time to decide what activities you would like to do during this special “me” time. 

Depending on what your body or mind needs and will make you feel good at that point in time, get those activities in. 

This could include things like reading, journaling, yoga, meditation, using a diffuser to get some much-needed aromatherapy or even taking a bubble bath.

Whatever activities make you feel relaxed and rejuvenated should be considered when choosing these activities for your routine.

7. Make It A Habit

The best way to make sure that self care becomes part of your nightly routine is by turning it into a habit. Try to stick with the same time each night to take care of yourself in spite of anything else. 

Before long, taking this time for yourself will become second nature and you’ll always look forward to this particular part of your day.

What Does A Self Care Night Look Like?

A self care night involves various activities depending on your preferences, but it usually involves nurturing your mind, body and soul.

Whatever activities you choose, it’s a time to focus on yourself. The goal is to prioritize yourself and give yourself permission to relax and recharge.

When you take time for yourself, it will help you unwind and prepare you for a restful night’s sleep. And, you’ll be recharged and better equipped to tackle whatever challenges come your way the next day.

Remember, the key to a successful self-care night is to do what makes you happy and relaxed. So shake off the stresses of the day, be kind to yourself, and prioritize your self care needs.

Here are some activities that you can include in your self care nightly routine.

1. Delicious Dinner

woman having dinner

Firstly, dinner is the last meal of the day. Start your self care night routine by preparing and enjoying a healthy, delicious and satisfying dinner.

This is not just about pleasing your taste buds, but it is also important that you provide your body with the necessary nutrients to repair and replenish itself.

A balanced dinner with a good mix of carbohydrates, fresh vegetables, lean proteins, whole grains, and healthy fats makes for a nourishing meal. This helps to stabilize blood sugar levels and prevent late-night cravings.

By including a delicious dinner in your nighttime routine, you can ensure that you are not only taking care of your body but also allowing yourself to unwind and enjoy the simple pleasures of life.

2. Create A Relaxing Atmosphere

Set the mood for your self-care routine by creating a relaxing atmosphere. After a long day of work, errands, and other responsibilities, it’s important to take some time to unwind and de-stress.

By setting up a calm and soothing environment, you can create a space where you can escape from the outside world and focus on your mental and emotional health.

This can include dimming the lights, playing relaxing music, lighting candles, or diffusing essential oils.

When you create a relaxing atmosphere, your body and mind are better able to release tension and let go of any worries or anxieties, promoting a better night’s sleep.

By incorporating these practices into your self care night routine, you can cultivate a sense of peace and tranquility in your life, which can help improve your overall well-being and quality of life.

3. Relaxing Warm Bath Or Shower

bath with bath salts and candles

Including a warm bath or shower as part of your nightly self care routine can offer a wide range of benefits for your physical and mental well-being.

Including this before bedtime can help you to relax and unwind, which can be particularly helpful if you struggle with stress, anxiety, or insomnia.

You can add some Epsom salt, bubble bath, or essential oils to enhance the experience and use a calming body wash or shower gel. The warm water can also help to soothe sore muscles and joints, reducing pain and tension in the body.

Plus, the steam from a warm shower can help to clear the sinuses and improve respiratory function. Take a few moments to care for yourself and promote a sense of calm and relaxation with a warm shower or bath.

This sets the stage for a restful and rejuvenating night’s sleep.

4. Moisturize Your Skin

Stepping out of a warm shower or hot bath is a great time to lock in the moisture into your skin. Slip on a robe and pamper your skin by applying some luxurious body lotion or oil.

Take your time and massage it in, paying special attention to any areas that tend to get drier than others. This is crucial for maintaining healthy, glowing skin.

It might not look that way but your skin does undergo a lot of stress throughout the day due to environmental factors such as pollution, UV radiation, and harsh weather conditions.

This can cause your skin to lose moisture and become dehydrated, leading to dryness, flakiness, and even premature aging.

When you apply a moisturizer before bed, it can help replenish your skin’s moisture and restore its natural balance.

Oh, and nighttime is the optimal time to moisturize your skin because it allows for the maximum absorption of the moisturizer into the skin.

As you sleep, the moisturizer works to repair and rejuvenate your skin, leaving it looking and feeling soft, supple, and refreshed in the morning.

5. Give Yourself A Facial

woman moisturizing her face

Giving yourself a facial can be a great way to care for and nourish your face, so it’s important to indulge in a skincare routine.

Start by washing your face with a gentle cleanser. This will remove any dirt, oil, and makeup from your skin and allow your other skin care products to penetrate better into the skin.

Then apply a toner to your face. This will help balance your skin’s pH level and remove any remaining traces of dirt and oil, and prep your skin for the rest of your skincare.

Next, apply a serum to your face. These are packed with active ingredients that can help focus on your specific skin issues.  Such as acne, fine lines, hyperpigmentation, or dryness, and acne scars just to name a few.

Follow that up with a moisturizer. This will help lock in the serum and provide additional hydration to your skin. Use a moisturizer that is right for your skin type, whether it’s oily, dry or combination.

Up next, apply an eye cream to the delicate skin around your eyes. This can help to reduce puffiness, dark circles, and fine lines in this area. And, finish off by moisturising those lips with lip balm.

6. Unplug From Technology

Minimize any distractions such as electronic devices. Research has shown that the blue light emitted by electronic devices such as smartphones, tablets, and laptops can disrupt your natural sleep patterns and make it more difficult for you to fall asleep.

In addition, staying connected to technology can contribute to feelings of stress and anxiety, as you may be constantly exposed to notifications and messages that require your attention.

When you look at electronic devices like phones or tablets, the blue light can suppress your body’s production of melatonin, which is a hormone that helps you to sleep.

This can make it harder to fall asleep and stay asleep throughout the night., and

By including unplugging as part of your nightly self-care routine, you can give your brain and body a break from the constant stimulation of technology, helping you to relax and unwind before bed.

This can lead to improved sleep quality, reduced stress and anxiety, and a greater sense of overall calm and well-being. So, try unplugging from technology for at least 30 minutes before bed.

7. Comfy Pajamas

woman wearing cozy pajamas

Slip into your favorite comfy pajamas. Whether it’s a soft cotton t-shirt and shorts, a cozy onesie, or a warm flannel set, or beautiful lingerie. Just make sure it’s something that makes you feel relaxed and comfortable.

Wearing comfortable clothing at night can help you relax and unwind, which is crucial for a good night’s sleep. Pajamas or sleepwear made from breathable fabrics can also help to regulate your body temperature and prevent overheating or getting too cold.

This ensures that you remain comfortable throughout the night. In this way, you set the stage for a restful, rejuvenating night’s sleep and start the next day feeling refreshed and ready to take on whatever challenges come your way.

7. Use Aromatherapy

Aromatherapy can have a powerful impact on your mood and well-being. Try using a lavender-scented pillow spray or diffusing lavender essential oil in your room.

Including a diffuser in your nightly self-care routine may seem simple, but it’s an effective way to promote relaxation, calmness, and better sleep.

When you diffuse essential oils into the air, it can create a soothing environment that can help to reduce stress and anxiety and promote better overall mental and emotional well-being.

Essential oils like lavender, chamomile, and bergamot have been shown to have calming effects, while peppermint and eucalyptus can help to clear the sinuses and improve breathing.

8. Journal

journal and pen

Journaling is an effective way to boost your night time self-care routine. It can be therapeutic and provides a safe space to process your thoughts and feelings.

Take a few minutes to reflect on your day and jot down any insights or emotions that come to mind. It allows you to process any challenges or stressors you may have faced during the day.

By writing down your thoughts, you can gain clarity and perspective on situations, identify patterns in your behavior, and even set goals for the future.

By taking the time to engage in this mindful activity, you can set yourself up for a more peaceful and restful night, allowing you to wake up feeling refreshed.

9. Practice Gratitude

Practicing gratitude is a simple yet powerful way to enhance your night time self-care routine. Spend a few minutes reflecting on the things you’re grateful for.

This simple exercise can help shift your focus away from negative thoughts or stressors to positive ones. This can help you to feel more content and reduce anxiety.

Besides, expressing gratitude before bed can help you to cultivate a sense of inner peace and relaxation, which can promote better sleep.

There are many ways to practice gratitude, from keeping a gratitude journal to simply thinking of a few things you are thankful for each night.

By incorporating this practice into your night time routine, you can reap the benefits of a more positive and fulfilling mindset, which can have a profound impact on your daily life.

Related: Gratitude Is A Must

10. Sip On A Cup Of Tea

a cup of tea and teapot

Enjoy a cup of tea before bed. Sipping on a cup of tea is a simple yet effective way to enhance your night time self-care routine.

Not only does it provide a comforting and calming ritual, but it can also have numerous health benefits. For example, certain types of tea, such as chamomile, lavender, or valerian root tea, have natural properties that can help to promote relaxation and reduce stress.

Plus, drinking a warm beverage before bed can help to soothe the digestive system and improve digestion, which can contribute to better sleep quality.

Added to that, taking a few moments to sit and savor a cup of tea can provide a mindful break from the hustle and bustle of daily life, helping you to feel more centered and grounded.

11. Write Down Your To-Do List For The Next Day

Writing down your to-do list for the next day before bed can help you feel more organized. This can also help clear your mind and reduce the possibility of stressing about tasks that need to be done.

This can help you relax and sleep better, improving your overall well-being. Besides, creating a to-do list can help you prioritize your tasks and manage your time more efficiently the following day.

This allows you to be more productive and avoid feeling overwhelmed. It can also give you a sense of control over your day, reducing the likelihood of forgetting important tasks or appointments.

By including this simple habit in your nighttime routine, you can set yourself up for a more peaceful and productive day ahead.

12. Read

woman reading book

Incorporating reading into your nighttime self-care routine can be incredibly beneficial for your mental health.

Firstly, reading before bed can help to calm your mind and reduce stress levels. By allowing yourself to become fully immersed in a book, you can escape the stresses of the day and enter a state of relaxation, which can promote better sleep quality.

In addition to that, reading can improve your analytical abilities, boost creativity, and increase your overall knowledge and understanding of the world around you.

It also provides a healthy alternative to staring at a screen, which can disrupt your sleep cycle and negatively impact your eyesight.

So, whether you prefer a gripping novel, a self-help book, or a light-hearted memoir, incorporating reading into your nighttime routine can be an incredibly fulfilling and rewarding habit to adopt.

13. Practice Meditation and Prayer

Including meditation and Prayer in your self-care routine can help reduce stress and promote relaxation. Find a quiet place to practice and allow yourself to be fully present in the moment.

Both practices have been shown to reduce stress and anxiety, improve sleep quality, and promote feelings of relaxation and calmness.

Taking time to quiet your mind and connect with a higher power, whether through meditation or prayer, can also help you gain a sense of perspective and cultivate gratitude.

By prioritizing these practices as part of your nighttime routine, you can create a peaceful and rejuvenating end to your day, setting the stage for a restful night’s sleep and a more centered and mindful start to your morning.

14. Get A Good Night’s Sleep

woman sleeping

Finally, it’s time to get a good night’s sleep. Ensure that you’ve turned off all your electronic devices, and settle in for a restful night.

Remember to be kind to yourself and allow yourself to fully rest and recharge. You can listen to sleep sounds or some soothing music that can help you calm your mind and fall asleep more easily.

Sleep is a time when your body rest, repair, and recharge. A lack of quality sleep can lead to a range of negative health outcomes, including increased stress, reduced mental function, and a weakened immune system.

Related: Practical Ways To Get Better Sleep

Conclusion On Self Care Night Routine

I can’t stress this enough. It’s important to take care of yourself, and especially after a long day of work or other activities. With these simple steps, making self care part of your nightly routine becomes achievable. 

With some dedication and commitment, Soon enough you’ll have created an effective self-care plan that fits perfectly into your lifestyle that caters specifically to your needs.

You’ll be able to incorporate more relaxation into your life while still making sure of your other responsibilities are taken care of.

What self care activities do you incorporate into your nightly routine? Comment Below!